Do you have a nudge from within that tells you that she is looking to reconcile?
Then let’s take this short test to find out…
1) Talks To You Anytime You Talk To Her
If your ex answers the phone anytime you call or responds to your texts almost immediately, it’s likely that that she still cares and has feelings for you.
If you make the right moves from this point onwards, there’s a chance that you’ll be able to attract her back.
2) Gives Excuses For Her Single-Dom
If your girl hasn’t started dating anyone else and gives excuses like,
“I have to work on my career”
“I need some space”
There’s a chance that she still wants you back.
Some of these excuses are genuine. But in most cases involving girls, such excuses aren’t so genuine.
Women with such excuses are usually looking to avoid an awkward movement with their friends or family.
So if you play your game right, you could have her back in your arms.
3) Compliments You
When you’re in a conversation with her, just start talking about your screw-ups at work and closely observe how she reacts.
Does she act kind or nice?
Or is the reaction cold and angry?
If she continues to converse with you in a nice way, it means she CARES about you.
… but that doesn’t mean she is attracted to you and wants you back.
However, there’s a soft spot that you can use to get your foot in the door.
4) Gone Through A Complete Change
Think about the time you called off the relationship…
Was it you who did it or was it her?
If it was you, why did you call it off? Was it because of your partner’s behaviour?
If you called off the relationship due to certain traits in your partner, observe her behaviour now.
Has she changed a lot since you last broke up?
Is the transformation REALLY solid?
If it is, it’s likely that she did it because she couldn’t bear the thought of losing you.
That’s definitely a positive sign that things are moving in the right direction.
5) Wants To Meet You
If she is constantly making plans to meet you (or your friends as a group), there’s a chance that she wants you.
She is secretly hoping that a mutual meeting in a group setting will get things moving.
It’s up to you to take advantage of this situation.
6) Still Cares About Your Life
Relationships are not purely about attraction. It’s about supporting each other to lead better, fulfilling lives.
If your ex still talks to you and cares about your career, the challenges you are going through, that surely MEANS something.
She still has some affection for you and it hasn’t gone away.
It’s up for you to show that you are WORTHY of her affection and win her back.
7) Feels Jealous/Acts Nosy
Some people feel incredibly jealous when they see their ex-partner with someone else (after a breakup).
This is especially true if she was the one who dumped you.
She might have dropped the ball on you hastily… but she might be secretly regretting her decision.
Just string along another girl in a group setting in front of her eyes and observe her reaction. Study it carefully.
Does she stare often at the other person? Does she act cold and uncomfortable?
If yes, it surely MEANS that there’s attraction left. It’s up to you to make it work.